Is it possible to really dislike your spouse to the point of hate??

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can. 100% if you're not enough of yourself in the marriage, you'll start to resent your partner for it. (assuming that is the relationship dynamic). There are some couples where they really 2 become 1 lol. So it quite depends on your relationship dynamic. Or like, you or your partner cheat on each other etc. I guess the question was pretty vague to begin with, so the answers could be all over the place and not what you're looking for. BUt yeah, barring any extreme actions on either partner, it still is possible!

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Unfortunately it is. There could be many deep set expectations of your spouse that was only revealed after marriage after living together and seeing his/her true side. Still, if it’s happening for a long period of time, it’ll probably be good to address it.

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If just temporary, it is normal. But if this persists, no point being in a relationship with someone you hate. It is very unhealthy. You need to address this - either you take it or you don’t. Choice is yours.

it is possible - but it would be sad. If you are feeling like this, I suggest either addressing your own demons (if unfair), having a quiet discussion, or seeking therapy.

It could be due to change of expectation. If he or she is like that since they one, can't expect them to change for you.

I've seen it with personal friends. It ends up being more of obligation to a marriage, rather than one with love.

Of cos... when u love someone and that they are important. If not, where got time to hate someone easily.

Yes to a certain extent, to the point of not being able to tolerate such bad habit of his/her

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i believe it is possible. But within that hate, there is still some love for them am i right?

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It depends. Some married early before each other in depths. Being attached and being together and living together is Two different situation. Living together will allow you to see a total different side of your partner