Annoying MIL

Me! My mil is the “kindest” woman in front of his Son. She never scold him at all but she make sure everyone know she is upset so that they will do the job for her. Our highest record at least 5 persons called my husband in the same day to tell him how “bad” he is while his mother said she respects his decision. The same method is applied to me too. I am always at high alert when she is around as I never know what I did wrong and ending up my husband getting load and load of calls from everyone telling us how bad I am except her.