TV: Get back in the sack

TV: Get back in the sack

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No time! Too tired! Lack of privacy! Has lovemaking been pushed aside since having kids? Find out how to rekindle the spark in your marriage with these sex after kids in our serious but fun episode as we talk to Founder of Vibease, Dema Tio and Founder of Lila Sutra, Erin Chen on how to rekindle intimacy after kids.
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My hubby just wants to get into the act and get it done and seriously, I'm getting pretty upset about it. Feel like he's using me just to relief his sexual urge. I want more foreplay but he doesn't wa
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If you are not satisfied with your sex life, sit down with your husband and discuss about this and look for a solution that can satisfy you both. On the other hand, try to create more fun and exciteme
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I would say catch him off guard. tease him a little. Maybe you try to play hard to get. Some guys likes to get it done fast and quick, whereas some prefers to have slow and steady. Talk it o
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After having a baby,my breasts feel deflated and very unsexy. and if my Husband tries to turn me on with them, it's very awkward knowing that I breastfed my Daughter. How do I get over this? Or should
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Your hubby should love everything about you - and appreciate what you've put your body through for your child. Maybe talk to him about this and see why he feels this. Talking is often the best cure. G
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i'll give it a miss!
I would give this a miss! It is a huge turn-off for me. :(
I'm surprised your husband is okay with milk coming out? I would personally tell hime to give it a miss.
My husband had an affair 1 year ago. I did not leave him and he promised me that it will not happen again. But ever since that incident, I find it almost impossible to have sex with him. He has indeed
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Hi, Time will help you with this phase. But I think you should talk to your husband about how you are feeling and since he is caring, he will understand about how are you feeling and will help you and
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Time will heal the pain . Give yourself some time and don't pressure yourself too much. When you are ready to accept his mistake and move on sex will come back naturally for the both of you. You may n
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Hi there It seems that the mutual trust between you and your husband has been broken and affected. It certainly takes lots of effort and time to build back the trust again. It will definetly
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Every individual is so different, so is their sex drive after kids. Especially women who generally have emotions rule their sexual experience. Is there really a fail-proof way to have a genuine desire
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There is no fail-proof way plus it is very subjective. I feel that thinking how far you have come as a couple and as a family and the love for each other, will rekindle the romance and feelings :)
No fool proof way like there is no fool proof way to make sure u will agree to a salesman pitch. Rekindle the romance is a good idea. Best if she is given the chance to relax and kids are away or u tw
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in my experience, the only fool-proof way to genuinely want to have sex is to rekindle the romance. it is very difficult for our bodies to react the same way after so many hormonal changes. but i
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My hubby and I rarely have sex anymore. And this is after 3 kids. I just feel so tired and unattractive and simply no mood. It feels like the sexual attraction is not there anymore. I don't know how t
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Hi, it is very subjective couple to couple but try going out on a getaway or something? That really changes the mood :)
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Hye why don't you try role-playing? Try first, then you'll know! ;)
Just straight forward and ask him why! That's what i did to my husband and i eventually found out why...
Hi mummy I know exactly how you felt. In fact i've been in your shoes. After being pregnant with my 2nd child. My husband and i rarely touched each other even till the birth of my 2nd child. Till
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I just had a baby and I feel very 'unsexy' and I hate that my husband thinks my now larger breasts are super-hot. It turns me off especially because I'm breastfeeding my 6 month old. How do I deal w
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Hi, I believe talking straight to your husband about your feelings will really help as both of you will come on same page then
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An honest discussion with him about how you feel might work wonders! You are experiencing huge changes to your body and I feel he should be understanding of it.
ohh god!! hmm same goes to me. mube after birth bby, then give he breastfeeding, my breast will losse. So sad,
i feel the same too. ever since i started breastfeeding, my breast are no longer a sexy item as it's constantly leaking and painful. i spoke to my husband about it. he understands me. he tries to a
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I feel that too especially during breastfeeding, weight gain and constant fatigue. my husband is very understanding of it but I often feel bad. So I use it as a way of thanking him for being supportiv
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Should me and hubby create 'intimacy room' beside our regular bedroom? We share room with the baby and i can say that the voice of my baby crying turn me off :(
If u have the spare room then why not. My baby also sleeps in the same room now. Do it at the hr when u know he is most unlikely to wake as my child has such an period. My boy also will go stay the ni
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It depends on how you and your husband feels. As i am staying with in laws under one big roof and we do not have a spare room OR a place which our kid can bunk in with. Usually we do it when the kid
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This is a typical problem of co sleeping with the baby. You definitely need to create another space for intimacy or have time out with your husband once a week. I let my gal stay over at my in mass pl
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Will sex still feel the same post-partum?
Not sure if u are asking abt the guy or the girl feeling. Some will feel more love some will feel awkward the first few times. Lube will help for any dryness. Foreplay helps too. Tight anot depends on
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No. you feel more love for your partner
For me, i felt the same. Probably sex drive won't be as high as how it was BEFORE pregnancy. As for my husband, he said it feels different. Not as tight as before. (i had two natural births)
Breastfeeding mum here. just tried having Sex with hubby but I am really damn dry (horny but dry). I have tried lubricant but it doesn't really help. (Using Durex). Any advice for me on how to increas
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Biologically it is going to be very hard because if u re actively breastfeeding then the hormones are such that it will be dry there. I not sure if a lot of foreplay will help. U use lubricant aso Dum
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Get lots of foreplay? After pregnancy, it's hard to get naturally wet easily. Lots of foreplay is needed
I have completely lost my libido since having my child. Problem is, my baby is now almost 12 months old but I still don't get turned on. Is this normal? Or is something really wrong with me? My husban
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