I just had a baby and I feel very 'unsexy' and I hate that my husband thinks my now larger breasts are super-hot. It turns me off especially because I'm breastfeeding my 6 month old. How do I deal with these feelings and how do I also strike a middle ground and keep my husband happy as well?
Any way to get you in the mood? Watch porn?
ohh god!! hmm same goes to me. mube after birth bby, then give he breastfeeding, my breast will losse. So sad,
Hi, I believe talking straight to your husband about your feelings will really help as both of you will come on same page then
An honest discussion with him about how you feel might work wonders! You are experiencing huge changes to your body and I feel he should be understanding of it.
i feel the same too. ever since i started breastfeeding, my breast are no longer a sexy item as it's constantly leaking and painful. i spoke to my husband about it. he understands me. he tries to avoid that area. We do more foreplay to get into the moodRead more
I feel that too especially during breastfeeding, weight gain and constant fatigue. my husband is very understanding of it but I often feel bad. So I use it as a way of thanking him for being supportive, understanding and not being pushy. its only for awhile and it makes your husband happy. so try it!Read more
- After having a baby,my breasts feel deflated and very unsexy. and if my Husband tries to turn me on with them, it's very awkward knowing that I breastfed my Daughter. How do I get over this? Or should we just give breasts a miss altogether?Anonymous
- I feel that I m so emotionally dependent on my husband that whenever we have a fight and not on talking terms, I feel extremely low that I don't feel like doing anything.. I get super depressed. Also my husband is not at all pampering sorts which is one of the reasons I get annoyed with him. How do I deal with this and wat shift I do to keep myself going in such situations so that my daily routine doesn't get affected.
Hi, Firstly I think you should accept the fact that your husband nature is such that he won't pamper or cuddle you. It is not that he doesn't pamper you intentionally but the fact that his nature is such. So, when you accept this, thing will become easier for you. May be he feels immense love and care for you but because of his nature he is resting all his emotions inside him. Also, women on the other hand are softer as compared to men and more than anything else they are carried away by love and emotions. So, it is but natural that you get emotionally affected and dependant on him. But, now that you know his nature, you should change yourself. Since, changing him is something that he himself can do and you cannot force him. So, I think you must indulge yourself in some activity, or start working if you are already not and keep your mind engaged. When mind is engaged in something then it doesn't take too much pressure. You will be busy and will whole day not sit and brood if things are not going on fine between you two. And when you will not be too much involved this way, chances are your husband will too take a note of it and would put in efforts to make things work. Now, he knows that you are weak as in emotionally too dependant on him so he may be taking you for granted at times. Also, in a relationship there comes many times when you fight and things are not working fine, and if you will be so emotionally dependant on him, you will keep thinking all day and it can make you stressed and can lead to illness. I suggest pick up some hobby or activity or anything that you like to do, so that you have something of your own to fall back upon. Where your energies are put so that you do not stress yourself over such issues.Anonymous
- I very angry when I go out and I realise all the passerby will stare at me.. I don't know why.. There is nothing wrong with my face or wearing . Maybe my body build is small size or what ppl thinks that I am very young? Or don't know what wrong with them.. I really hate it every time I go out sure all of the ppl stare and stare until I walk out of their sight.. even mothers and fathers stare.. Anyone encounter this? My husband also saw it and say what's wrong with these ppl.. I always wear a T shirt and a short . Very normal, sport shoes or slipper. My husband same. My baby is normal also.. I use baby carrier normal also.. I just can't figure out why.. stare me up and down that kind.. make me hate to go out for a walk..Anonymous