After having a baby,my breasts feel deflated and very unsexy. and if my Husband tries to turn me on with them, it's very awkward knowing that I breastfed my Daughter. How do I get over this? Or should we just give breasts a miss altogether?

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Haha I'm too lazy to wash my breast after he licks them so we give it a miss just goal in the hole.

Well, if u fee not sexy about ur breast anymore then i guess u should really give it a miss. But since it is a thing that men like, try to communicate wth ur husband about how u feel about them so maybe u all can still involve the breast but to a lesser degree? Some fondling?

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Actually you should see your breasts as very sexy. They are the source of your daughter's food and a significance of what you have done for motherhood. I am sure your husband still finds your breasts sexy. In fact some men find their wives sexier after giving birth :) actually our breasts size usually remain the same after we breastfeed. I have spoken to a breast specialist before . They only feel or look smaller because before that our breasts were very engorged and bigger during pregnancy and breastfeeding so it is a relative thing. But yes they do feel but deflated like all the fats have been sucked out, not so firm anymore. If we learn to love our bodies before and after birth and be confident about it I am sure your husband will find you sexy deflated or not

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My husband just give my breast amiss. He feels that it's my baby food source he feels weird playing with it. There are many ways to get into the sexual feeling other then fondling of breasts.

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Assalamualaikum Blh tnya klu mok dia pasrpot mati blh mohon

Your hubby should love everything about you - and appreciate what you've put your body through for your child. Maybe talk to him about this and see why he feels this. Talking is often the best cure. Good luck

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i'll give it a miss!

I would give this a miss! It is a huge turn-off for me. :(

I'm surprised your husband is okay with milk coming out? I would personally tell hime to give it a miss.

Hi, I feel that having confidence in your body gives one strength. So, have that confidence in be proud of your breasts as they are the source of food to your daughter. I am sure you will feel better :)

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