Yesterday their was a news about rape and my FIL nonchalantly remarked that it must be the fault of the girl; girls should not venture out and be dressed properly. I really felt annoyed. How does one change people's mentality?

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I do not think you can change someone's mentality and especially someone as old as your FIL. I suggest, do not waste your energy in thinking about changing your FIL's thought process. Do not have any
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you don't and can't unfortunately change his mentality, but what you can do is definitely take a stand and be voluble about it. if you know that what he said was not right, why didn't you speak up the
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Don't bother...his age shows his mind is set. Don't waste good time in trying to change him. Instead if his conversation was heard by ur kids, try to adjust their thinking.