why like this?
When me n husb went out for few hrs to take break, mil will take care of LO. But once we home, she will nag nag nag. But when i saw my sil (husb'sis) asked my mil to look after her LO, when my sil is back, mil didnot nag, even can smile smile updating sil of her LO' activities etc. Why different treatment sia?? Just ranting out~~~
So sorry to hear this.😢
I feel you. I just let her nag and let it goooooo
Mil could be just super tired
We went out only when mil doesnt need to look after my sil' kids. Plus she has a maid
Just ignore...mayb next time when u home buy something for her
Maybe offer to buy mil lunch or dinner or treat her with a spa retreat.
Don't take or too personally...Maybe next time buy her favourite food or a little gift (:
Hey, I would suggest just don't think about it too much and let it go. It might be because your MIL would have got little tired or might be simply nothing
Maybe can buy something back for her when u & ur hubby went out?
Ahh! Next time must say “we bought something for u”. Must claim credit that belong to you
Your sil is your mil daughter, most probably she won't mind. But dil is not her birth child, so she will expect like you to take care lo yourself.
Maybe next u go out ask her if she feels like eating anything or buy anything.sometimes it's just the attention they need. And also sometimes they will say no need no need no need, but actually when u bought it they very happy in their heart but don't show it out. Just got to do with the pride babe.Read more
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