What should you do if you find out your hubby have another child from his ex-gf? I found out my hubby have another kids with his ex-gf after one year our marriage .i know this after I checked his phone and saw massage from this woman asking money. I call the number and woman there said my hubby have 10yo son. The kids and ex-gf is at oversea. They know each other when the woman is working in Singapore. What should I do? And I am currently pregnant.

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sit down and talk heart to heart. Asked him wat does he wants. Need to think of u and e child dat is coming soon. Stay strong Mummy. I know is not easy.

I will be so upset that i can't trust him anymore. Who knows what other big secrets he has hidden from you. Ask him and have a heart to heart talk.

8y ago

Then why are you jumping into conclusions that its a scam. 🙄 Yes everyone have secrets, but big issues like having kids, marital status is a no brainer to be honest about. Unless you dont mind your wife hide from you about having kids in another country or married to other man while married to you...

Frankly speaking, i cant even imagine being in such a predicament. There must be trust in a marriage that includes being transparent.

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The situation for you is really complicated.. Is your hubby still seeing each other (ex) ? Does he travelled there to see them?

8y ago

Try to talk to him ? And discuss further.. Some ex are really ridiculous... If no meet up , no worries and dont meed send money back. Some ex just use child to keep asking for money.. Haiz. Be strong and try sort it out.

10 year old child. He hid it from u. This person best not to trust. It will be better to abort the baby n divorce

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I think u need to have a talk with him. tbh I feel he shld at least let u know before you two even get married

Is the son even truly his? Because this is a very old scam. The kid might have a lot of fathers.

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You need to ask your husband in detail and everything. do you know about this child before getting married?

8y ago

My hubby choose to keep silent when I talk about this. sigh.

Whether it's his past or not it is your right to know. That's a very irresponsible thing he said.

the h dear, this sounds really awful. you need to speak with your husband and find out the truth

8y ago

when I ask him,we starting to argue. Never explain a single word to me at all. said to me to stop digging his pass. I don't think he realised if he did the mistake that he never tell me the truth before. choose to hiding the secret after that I found out myself make me even more hurt.