Dad’s don’t say this!

What are the things that a dad to be should not say in a delivery room?

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Keep teaching how to breath properly

3w ago

Please help me like the photo https://community.theasianparent.com/booth/1189131?d=android&ct=b&share=true

My husband play with his phone when i had contractions every damn minute! 😭 My husband also plays with his phone when the doctor was stitching me up. It hurts me so bad. But it taught me to be independent. 😔 I started to accept my husband like that. And just be strong by being independent

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7mo ago

Oh no karen. Sorry. I dont understand your language 😂

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Its ok. Giv birth only. *bish!!*

3w ago

Please help me like the photo https://community.theasianparent.com/booth/1189131?d=android&ct=b&share=true

Dads role is to be suppprtive positive and being there. Firstly should not question doctor or interfere in anyway.. secondly never say anything negative discouraging or anything that will increase the anxiety and fear of the mother. Thirdly do not shate your own anxieties a loud.

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I go for a smoke

12mo ago

ican sense my partner will be like this 😂😭

When my husband said "Yes, just keep breathing deeply, that helps", I wanted to scream back at him: "How would you know what helps? You're not the one feeling wave after wave of pain!" Fortuntately/unfortunately the pain was so intense that I could only glare at him. If I had the strength to, I would've thrown something at him. Haha

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My ex-husband told me he was sleepy and I remember I got so irritated. Like hello, here I am being strapped, probed down there, poked with a needle (epidural) and numb in my legs while I lay there uncomfortably, and you are telling me you're sleepy?

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(1) I need to check my Clash of Clans account (2) I am hungry, are you hungry? Can you eat? (3) Do you think we can ask the doctor to stitch you up tighter after this? (crude but my friend's husband joked about this and he got into sooo much trouble haha)

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(1) Man, I'm exhausted! (2) How long do you think this will take? (3) Honey, painful ah? (4) So how soon can we have sex? (5) Yikes, can you not scream so loudly?

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This is a darn good question, made me roll over the floor. It would definitely piss me off if my husband tells me to Suck it up!