Sadly that is the traditional man role, that is the norm during our mother's time too.
With the above said, it does not meant he is right. Is just that he has not catch up with time. This is more true if you are the designated housewife.
Man go to work and earn money and woman take care of family. That is why during divorce woman can claim matrimonial assets because of this provider and dependent relationship.
Are you working too? If so talk to him about each other roles and responsibility.
If you aren't working >.< Still talking to him but say you need help with your current designated responsibility. Maybe consider hiring a maid to lighten the load.
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