1. I am not on good terms with in laws! I totally dont let them see or touch my baby unless I feel like then I bring baby over to their house! (Maybe 3 month once for 1 hour or less) Yayaya people always say “be nice because you never know when you need their help” lmao no thanks I won’t be nice 2. Dont even mention siblings in law! WORSE!!!! They didn’t like me since day 1 know them for 5 years never spoke more than 3 sentences lol! They want play with my baby?! Hell no! I hate it when they touch or even try to carry my baby! I make it clear I don’t want them to anyhow touch or carry my baby! I dont care if I totally make things ugly with them! They dont deserve it why should I! You have to be a role model to your kid but I won’t teach them to respect adults who dont respect them! At least for me if y’all dont respect me then why the hell should I teach my kid to respect y’all. Break the generational curse of expecting our kids to respect adults who clearly dont respect them You are the mom baby is yours you have all the rights to decide who does what with your baby. Stand for yourself! Be firm! Voice out!
Anonymous