Tinotolerate nyo ba ang "bil-moko non bil-moko nyan" para sa mga anak nyo?

For me since my daughter just turned 2 hindi p sya marunong magturo ng kung anu-ano aside sa bubble gun... But at her very young age I intend on teaching her how to earn and save her own money for her to be able to buy the things she wants without asking us to buy her... In that way matututo syang iappreciate mga bagay meron sya dhil pinaghirapan nya... Cute p nman sa mga toddlers ang magtinda tinda but ofcourse with our supervision. Let's teach them to catch fish and not just giving it to them... 😉

Pag food okay lang sakin, especially pag healthy naman, go lang. Pero for toys, I rarely do. Ayoko kasi masanay sila na every time nasa mall kami, mgpapabili. I want to discipline them in that aspect. May few times lang na pinagbibigyan ko sila na wala sa plan bumili ng toys. But most of the time. I'd tell them that I will buy it for them if he becomes a good boy always or if mama has money already. Para alam nya na pinaghihirapan muna bago mabili ang isang bagay na gusto mo.

I would prefer that, your child can ask for what they want but keep it limited, perhaps you can make a deal for those things they wanted in exchange for the preference you wanted for your children, for example a good grades, or how to be a better child to his mother and father, and that will result into habit for them, cause making them feel that you can provide anything for them, without any exchange or effort, that's is a no, no when they grow up having a mindset like that.

For me I already managing my child's expectation. Pag sinabi ko na isa lang ang pwede nya bilhin, 1 lang talaga ang bibilhin. Pag sinabing maglalaro lang, maglalaro lang kami. We should be consistent and firm para ang mga anak natin ay lumalaki na may diacipline at maaga pa lang lang nagiging aware na sila sa mga needs and wants pagdating sa mga nire requests nilang ipabili. 👍

No. I don't know if napapansin nyong kids nowadays think and feel that they are entitled to everything they want. Ayoko lumaki anak ko ng ganyan so pag binibilhan ko sya ng something it's mostly as a reward for good deeds or good performance. Otherwise, I tell him that we don't have the budget for it. Sa start hirap akong i-explain sa kanya pero ngayon he understands me na.

As much as possible no. Kasi mahirap na masanay yung mga kids na lagi nila nakukuha nila gusto nila. What we do is we make it a reward kapag mataas grades nila or if they did their chores for that day. :) Maganda din na maintindihan nila na hindi madali mag-earn ng money, para aware sila na kailangan nila magsikap talaga para makuha yung mga gusto nila :)

Sakin, binbigay ko gusto ng daughter ko as a Prize or as a Reward sa good deeds. kunwari pag niligpit nya toys nya at nag behave dadalhin ko sya sa mall at ipapasok ko sya sa mga playstop na may mga slide na may mga toys like kid zoona. pero kung usapan food at nag crave si daughter ko.. agad agad bibilin na namin ni misis pero kung toys she have to earn it.

Ako po hindi.. sa anak ko natutuwa ako kasi at age of 2 naiintindihan na nya.. kapag may gusto syang laruan tapos bigla ko sasabihin na walang pambili si mommy anak saka may toys ka pa naman di ba? Ok lang ba di muna tayo bumili nyan? Sasabihin lang ng anak ko " okay mommy"... although afford naman bilhin sinusubukan ko lang baby ko..

No. When we are at the toy store, for instance, I allow them to play, pero if mgpapabili na, I divert their attention. Usually, I bring them their to check kung ano na ang bagay sa age nila, more on canvassing pa lng pero hindi pwede ung bili lang ng bili agad. I want every toy to be worth the penny and magagamit nila pangmatagalan.

Minsan, oo. Depende sa pinapabili. Pero hindi palagi. Kasi, pinapaliwanag pa din namin sa bata ang kahalagahan ng tamang pagspend ng pera. Pinapaunawa din namin na hindi ganoon kadali mag-earn ng pera pang-spend sa mga kailangan sa bahay and even for leisure--of course, we explain it sa paraan na mauunawan nila.