Tama ba na gumastos ng sobra sa 1styear old ng anak mo kung hinde naman niya maeenjoy?

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anong klase ang sobra? may mga naattendan akong birthday na umabot ng 80-100k for the 1st year birthday. if kaya ng budget why not pero if sa tingin may mas more importnter pa na kelangan bilhin ilinit lang siguro.. and depende din kasi sa dami ng guest mo..:) also i suggest if gagastos ng bonnga make sure to have a photographer and videographer to document everything para pag lumaki na siya mapakita mo pa rin diba sa kanya..:)

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It depends on your perspective. Ako kasi, I agree that you can have simple celebration and mas importante lahat ng nagmamahal sa baby present sa occasion. Pero for me, spending and preparing an extra special celebration is another way of showing your love for your child. Not because of the money spent, but the effort you've spent to save the money, the hard work you did para mapagipunan lahat para sa birthday ng anak mo.

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Ok lang gumastos ng within your budget, pero kung sobra don at mangungutang ka pa... pagisipang mabuti :) kung gagastos ka man, make sure yun mae-enjoy mo, or for adults na lang if wala naman masyadong kids na invited. First birthday is not just our baby's milestone. It's also for us parents. Be thankful and celebrate your first year as parents. :)

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most likely dipa nila masyadong ma eenjoy pero momshie di ka ba nagdiriwang or natutuwa sa biyaya na bigay sayo at nag isang taon na sya mula ng sinilang? isa pa maaaring di nya pa ma appreaciate or ma enjoy ngaun yan pero paglaki nya at may muwang na jan nya ma appreaciate ang lahat na ganon sya kamahal at kahalaga ng syay isinilang

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let's just say that the first birthday is not for the baby, more of for the parents, as thanksgiving and a milestone. :) birthdays are always a celebration of being alive. thanking God for a year of health and life. not just a party. :) gumastos na lang ng kaya. kung kaya ng bongga go. kung wala eh di wag. :)

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Kung kaya naman ng bugdet, yes. Hindi nya maaalala yan pero mag-eenjoy naman sya. Celebration mo din para sa sarili mo yun kasi nakapagluwal at nakapagpalaki ka ng healthy na bata. Pero kung limited ang budget sapat na yung magluluto nalang sa bahay tapos simpleng pagames sa mga bata or kahit kain lang sa labas okay na.

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If you have the means, go for it. My personal take, it doesn't matter kung aware na si baby or hindi. What matters is the effort exerted by all the people who love him/her to make the first birthday celebration really memorable, which could also entail malaking gastos talaga, depending on how you'd want to celebrate it.

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For me it's okay. First bday yun e. Pero kung taon-taon naman ang party, no-no yun. Pero sympre may limit at may budget lang for the first bday. As much as possible, wag naman umabot at magexceed ng 100K. May mga parents kasi ako nababasa sa blog na venue pa lang ng party umabot na ng 30K to 60K.

if you have budget then why not. For me kasi I prefer friends(Godparents specifically) and family lang kc that is so precious time to also have bonding with everyone but not to mention that my son's godparents are 15pairs bcoz all of my friends doesn't want to be missed out in the list. 😄

My take, it's okay if your budget permits. Anyway, it's all for your child. Ako kasi, pag usapang anak, I'll give as much as I can hanggat kaya ko. Of course, it's also good to be practical. Pero if we're talking about 1st birthday, it's ok for me to splurge a bit.