Tama ba na gumastos ng sobra sa 1styear old ng anak mo kung hinde naman niya maeenjoy?

It depends on your perspective. Ako kasi, I agree that you can have simple celebration and mas importante lahat ng nagmamahal sa baby present sa occasion. Pero for me, spending and preparing an extra special celebration is another way of showing your love for your child. Not because of the money spent, but the effort you've spent to save the money, the hard work you did para mapagipunan lahat para sa birthday ng anak mo.