Is it okay for my husband to allot money for my mother in law monthly? He is an OFW and I am a stay at home mom with our baby. I don't get to see his payslips and remittance slips kaya di ko alam how much napupunta kay MIL. Is it wrong for me to feel unfair na til now nag-aabot pa din sya kay MIL? Affected kasi sobra ang budget namin. I cannot tell him to stop sending money to MIL coz it'll offend him of course.

Anonymous

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Hi, How is your husband's allotting money to his mother affecting you? I suggest stay out of his relationship with his mother as this will be the sane st way to deal with it. She is his mother and I do not think that you should ruin your peace of mind and his as well by bringing this topic up. He knows what he is doing and by showing your displeasure or concern over him giving money to his mother is only going to spoil your relationship with your husband.

Magbasa pa

Anonymous

9y ago

He will always say that he send all his money to our baby and I, leaving himself enough amount to survive his own monthly expenses and allowance there. He's aware that the money I receive immediately goes for the monthly amortizations. Most of the time it leaves us not a single peso to pay for baby's needs, vaccinations, food, etc. I suffer bugging my family especially my parents to give me money. I find it unfair because he always lie. pinapalabas nya na everything goes to me when in fact pati

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Home Random Talk okay husband allot money mother in law monthly ofw i stay home mom with baby i dont get see payslips remittance slips kaya di ko alam how much napupunta kay mil wrong feel unfair na til now nag aabot pa din sya kay mil affected kasi sobra ang budget namin i cannot tell him stop sending money mil coz ll offend him course