How Can I Properly Punish Him Bec Of watching too much porn?

How can I punish my husband for watching too much porn? I just posted here a few days ago my problem with my husband that is always watching porn (daily 2-3x a day) even if we have an active sx life. And viola, I just caught him really in the act when I entered his man cave (computer room). I asked him what he is doing- he admitted he is mstrbating and of course while watching porn. I asked why does he need to watch porn and he couldn't give me an answer. I cried in front of him bec I've been keeping it to myself that I am having body insecurities now because of what he does. He said he won't watch anymore but I just don't believe him coz I've already told him about it before and he didn't stop. He might be thinking I wasn't serious back then no until I cried infront of him. Until now I do not talk to him. I want him to realize that it is wrong to mstrbate looking at other women while I was here doing my best everytime we have sx. I felt stupid doing somethings for him just so he can be satisfied but that doesn't seem to ne enough for him as he still looks at pornography. Yes I am pregnant right now, 35 weeks. But despite that, I try my best to satisfy him, Ako pa nga nag-yayaya sakanya most of the time and nagpapaka pornstar ako for him even hirap na ako sa tyan ko para lang di na siya manood ng porn. How can I punish him? Is completely not having sx with him for months enough? What can we do to fix this?

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I'm not sure that giving him a "punishment" is the solution to your problem. If you don't give him sex, baka mas lalo pa magworsen yung addiction nya sa porn, and in the end, you two would have grown farther apart. I think first, you really need to get an honest answer from him as to why he's doing it. Only then can you move forward to actually find a solution to the problem. Pero if you're not really looking for a solution but would just want to get even and "punish" him, then I guess no sex and no talk is good enough. Just make sure that the punishment is actually making HIM feel bad, not you.

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