Need to understand men. Questions. Do you "report" to your Wife your whereabouts? Do you let her know if you're going home late? And tell her the reason why. Do you go drinking without telling? Do you work till very late go home just shower and sleep and skip talking to your Wife? Even though she's awake you just do your own thing. Is it married life about doing your own thing and I do mine? I know this is very common in married life. Communication break down. But is it too much to know his whereabouts? At least I won't be at home worrying right? He just don't get it and ask me to stop asking. He will only tell me coming home or going out. That's it. I feel sad for other women last time, now I feel sad for myself as I've never imagine this will happen to me. Ladies, please advise whether you all care so much? Will ask in detail what the Husband is doing? How you all managed to don't care at all?

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i will need to know where he will be. at least an area. i told him in terms of emergency lets say there is a bomb or fire. i will know if the area affected is where he is. As we have kids too, i will need to let him know if there is emergency do i wait for him to be back or i go first. yes my husband and i do have communication breakdown, sometimes due to parenting stress, once home, each of us does our own thing and sleep.

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Sometimes he just plays and talks to baby but when he sees me his face changed and just do his own thing. I can feel he's like very irritated to look at me. So he just sleep and wake up faster prepare and go to work. We can stay like that for days. I'm staying at home look after LO and sometimes it do affects my mood.