New Daddy's Woes!

May I ask first if the baby is planned or not? Sounds to me that you are not ready to be a father yet as you care so much for yourself. Give your wife her me time first. Giving birth is much more difficult than giving up guys night out. Were you with her when she gave birth? Did you see how much pain she went thru? She gave up almost everything about her just to bring the baby into the world. I hope you’d look at that first. Then, when you valued her on this new chapter of both of your lives, then maybe asking her for some time to yourself would be as easy as giving birth.