New Daddy's Woes!

My wife just gave birth one month ago and I feel like I don't have a life anymore! I want my guys' night out and soccer time with my buddies. Everything is about the baby now. Is this it for me? How do I tell my wife I need some me time without upsetting her?

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This post is already old enough to comnent but i just want to ask, how are you and your wife now? is she still your wife?

hurm. think for your wife also. she also need a me time right ????? give n take lohhh. bukan anak n bini org lain pun :)

To be fair she needs those 'me times' more than you being a new mom is great but can be very tiring

Sit down and talk to her on having a compromise to have your own time to yourself. Having no space is not healthy for anyone.

us, moms are also need ME time. Talk to her. Tell her, she can have her time and you can have your time alone too with friends.

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Be more supportive. Offer some help. Cooperate with being parents. You get a night out, she gets one too. Everybody wins.

Maybe in law or parents can kick in to help so that both you n your wife can have some ME Time. Or get a maid

lol you should have thought abt this before you sell your soul 😂 communication is key bro. How worse can it get?

6y ago

very worse bt lets jus try to sulport

be respossible to ur wife dude, she's still weak and need ur company for taking good care of ur child.

ur a dad now. suck it up.. sacrifice, love ur child u dnt wnna miss anything. . or ull regret it. .