Cheating Friend

My best friend just told she is having an affair. She has no plans to leave her husband or family but she wants to have a child with her lover (and pretend it's her husband). I am beyond disgusted. Should i tell her husband. I am also friends with him.

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As a best friend. Appeciate your friendship. I think its time to put sense in her s*** brain. Not only she is hurting herself but her husb, children if any her family members. What is she thinking about. Why?? This is not a joke or games?? Her lover eventually will not be there with her 4ever. He knows she has a husband right?? He can always find a new one. Please tell her dont hurt people feelings. Its very stressful and emotionally. I dont think the husband will be able to take it. I hoped your friend has some thoughts and know the meaning of marriages, commitment, trust, faithful n etc why at the first place she married.

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Your bestfriend is definitely out of her mind. Be careful as they say bestfriends are mirrors of ourselves. She is having an affair and she wants to lie to her husband for having a baby from another man. This is sinister! Maybe her husband is equally guilty or has an affair of his own but taking a revenge is not the right thing to do. To hell with her husband and family, if she is mo longer happy then live with her lover. Don't complicate the situation which she may end up complicating further. Another to consider is her children. They're innocent and must not suffer the consequences of her kagagahan!

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Be the best friend that you should be. Correct her and be honest with her. Make her realize the consequences. Tell her that sooner or later karma will hit her. That she may never undo her wrong doings. And tell her that the family she once have will never be there for her anymore. If talking to her doesn't go well, for my opinion, that's when you should tell her husband. One day when she carried out her plan, you will feel guilty whenever you will talk to her husband and pity the newborn child. Better if the wrong one gets angry with me than the innocent one.

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i am sure you have talked to her already but talk to her again and make her see some sense. what she wants is so so wrong! i mean, having an affair is different, but wanting to also have a baby with that man and then fool the husband into thinking it is his?? that is beyond cheating and wrong...i guess you are friends with her so you should stick to that, and try to make her see sense. however, don't get into the zone of turning 'informer.' leave that between the couple

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This sounds wrong on so many levels. Why would she want to have a child with him and bring that kid up with her husband, in their home, with his money- and the lover has nothing to do with the child? I would suggest knocking some sense into your friend first. If all else fails, yes, please sit them down together to sort this out. Please do not allow her to do this to a child and to her husband.

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Better stay away from such best friends with such low values. As long as you are close to her, there will be plagues of problems and complications that will come into your life because best friends need to support each other or else, you will placed in a dilemma. Obviously, as her best friend this is expected of you and that’s is why she is sharing with you..☹️

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this is definitely not right on her part, and is so unfair for the husband and the children, as well as for the baby she wants to have. i don't think you should talk about it to the husband as the wife shared this with you in confidence. but you should definitely talk to her and try and see if she can get out of this and get back to her husband alone.

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?! I will advise her NOT to do it. If she insists she wants to, I will tell her if she continues on this path I will cut off ties with her because I do not condone such actions. Leave it to the couple to thrash it out. I'm not getting involved in such a messy affair. Don't want to get blamed for their divorce.

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Sabi nga, hindi maitatama ng isang mali ang isa pang pagkakamali. I am not saying na mali ang magka-anak, but the intention is just so wrong sa kahit anong angle tignan. She definitely has an issue with first, herself, second with her husband. Talk to her first and make her realize all the consequences of her actions.

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In the first place if Im her best friend i would definitely advise my friend to stop it . "It is not right " i know she knows it also . If ever she will not listen i would now tell her husband anonymously about it so that it wont be unfair also to him.