Marriage life changed

what will mummy do if facing below ? am tired doing all this alone over 1 year. need some advice - no more going out as 2 after birth which he turned down - no more date night/simple meal after birth which he turned down - no more intimate - he is not providing household expenses - not helping in household chores even have asked and expect me to wash toilet even i was 9 months pregnant - not providing on baby expenses including formula and pampers - not paying for helper salary - not paying for utilities - never give allowances - a day have been talk less than 5 words recently

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Maybe u guys can approach a marriage counselor for help. If by then, he still behaves this way then it is better off for u to be strong willed and file for divorce

J&Y

Dreaming of becoming a parent

4y ago

he grabbed my hair yesterday when we were quarrelling and hit my face and my lip is now bruises and swell. he throw my phone too and its damaged badly. went to lodged police report but couldn’t take any action cause i never done any PPO before

Seems like there is no love in your marriage. He simply doesn't want to take responsibility in the house anymore. Maybe you should consider divorce.

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J&Y

Dreaming of becoming a parent

4y ago

and i took initiative to asked him fr dine out tgt and hang out sometimes as i took alot of examples to him like we need our we time too like our old days cause i have my helper and my mom to take care of my baby so it shouldn’t be worry his answer would be if de baby nv go with us he will stay home too and asked me go on my own. and i tried go on my own cause i need to have my own time sometimes but end up he nv take care of the baby at home. he would be playing with phone or calling his mom.

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