Knowing your priorities: 1) Kids over wife? OR 2) Wife over kids? After courtship days, the husband just don't bother to nurture the wife. What are your opinions?

1) Kids over wife (If I must choose) A child has no choice, he cannot choose his mother or father. While adult get choose who to married and re-married. With the above said, it should be family over kids or wife. The union needs to be viewed as a whole. After courtship, it takes both to maintain the relationship. The one being courted might feel neglected because the relationship becomes an equal partnership.

Before we had kids, it was always wife, Now? It's kids over wife! cmon. i also choose my kids over my husband!

before kid, my hubby showed concern for me. now it's kid over wife!

Kids first. They are still too young to fend for themselves!

wife over kids. we are the pillar of the household.

Definitely kids over wife/husband.

For me its spouse over kids