Okay lang ba na magpakasal kahit wala pang isang taon ang relasyon?
Moms, dads, okay lang ba na magpakasal kahit wala pang isang taon ang relasyon? Comment your thoughts and kwentos!
kami nga sa facebook lang nagkakilala 2018 June to 2019 September LDR, first time nag meet in person October 11, 2019 pagka next week nyan October 19, 2019 namanhikan na, then after process na for the wedding. November 8, 2019 ikinasal na kami. days lang magkakilala in person, sobra 1 year naman sa LDR na halos lahat nang oras on call,. Mag 2 years na kami ngayon na mag asawa. Parang wala namang pinagkaiba sa long term relationship at sa super short term. Basta WAY nang Panginoon walang basehan yan, pamatagalan o pamadalian. Basta sa sarili nyo dalawa pareho kayo sure and willing to enter the married life. Pareho kasi kami dalawa decided na ikasal. 25 years old ako nun at 29years old din naman ang husband ko nun. And we're both happy po now by God's Grace at may isa na kaming anak. Di basehan ang time, ang nasa loob nyo dapat kung sigurado at gusto nyo na ba na ikasal at pumasok na sa married life.Magbasa pa
It's a yes for me.. In my own opinion, wala sa tagal ng pagsasama nyo yan bilang magbf-gf as well as kung kilala nyo na yung isa't-isa or hindi pa. Kasi like what others have said, marami dyan, sobrang tagal na magbf-gf pero at the end of the day, naghihiwalay pa rin. To think na for so many years, parang marriage nalang ang kulang. Meaning, they can say that they have fully known each other. So for me, as long as you're BOTH ready to take the responsibilities of a marriage life, willing to take the risks, forsake all others for each other, CHOOSE to LOVE ONE ANOTHER UNCONDITIONALLY.. Then, go for it. For if there's no perfect person, and so with the relationship.. There will always be highs and lows, ups and downs in all aspects (financially, mentally, emotionally, relationally, spiritually, physically).. But take heart, that's where your love for each other grows.. ☺️Magbasa pa
it's not about the time or period of being in a relationship.its about love,respect,trust and most especially if God allowed you to be one. Me and my husband got married when we were in 7mos of relationship.we were LDR.He is working in Saudi while my work was in UAE and we never had a chance to see each other. the last time we saw each other was in 2016, it was an accident actually because we were both processing our papers abroad..but before that we've known each other since highschool and we never imagined that we are the one for each other until one day God showed us that we are the one. How? we prayed for a partner not knowing that God chose us to be that person that He planned for each other...and by God's grace we got married and now we are beyond blessed of our upcoming bundle of joy..thank you Lord...Magbasa pa
I had a Fil-Am boyfriend for about 5yrs. Sobrang perfect na sana since we both working na after college. kasal nalang sana kulang, but things did not go with our plans. In short hindi kami nagka tuluyan, ... pero nagka balikan kami ng ex bf ko before him. so ayun.. kung magpapakasal ka make sure na you are both financially and mentally stable. Above all you are spiritually devoted sa family na bubuuin nyo. Yung tipong parehas na kayong sawa sa buhay single at kahit anong masamang ugali ng partner mo, you are willing to accept it. its either you will change him or play with it.Magbasa pa
Okay lang naman as long as both parties ay nagkakaintindihan. Di naman basehan ang pagkaroon ng long term relationship para magpakasal ka sa taong mahal mo. In my case, wala pa ding 1 year relationship namin na nagpakasal na kami ni hubby. LDR-pa kami, minsanan pa kami magkita nun. Mag 2nd anniversary na kami, so far,so good naman ang flow ng relationship namin.🙏 Need lang po nang mutual understanding, trust,love & respect at higit sa lahat prayers para manatiling strong ang relationship.Magbasa pa
Absolutely, yes, why not! 😊 Kami ng husband ko, 10 months kaming magkakilala/naging magkaibigan before naging kami. After 4 months, nag-propose na sya. Then after 4 months ulit, nagpakasal na kami. 😊 Discernment is needed whenever you decide on things lalo na yang longterm and irrevocable commitment. It's best na before pa man kayo ikasal, clear na sa inyong dalawa ang goal and purpose of getting married. You should both have agreed on a vision of building a family. 😊Magbasa pa
yes po. Wala naman sa tagal ng relasyon yan..minsan mararamdaman Muna lang na "siya na " Kami nga po ni husband 6 months lang magkarelasyon nung pang 7 months namen kinasal na kami . Hindi ako buntis nun ahh. na feel lang namen na this is the right time . ngayon mag 5 years nakami sa December 27 . Finally after 4 years nagka baby nakami . Extra special niyan Ang pasko dahil 3 nakami. Advance Merry Christmas 🎄 to everyone. spread love not virus 💪 #ShareKoLangNamanPoMagbasa pa
Para sa akin it depends eh.. Kasi kung less than a year.. hindi niyo pa talaga kilala ang isa't isa.. Hindi niyo pa nakikita yung tunay na ugali ng isa't isa.. And marriage is something you can't turn your back pag ayaw mo na.. Pero nasa sa inyo pa rin naman yung desisyon na yun.. Kung talagang sure na kayo.. And financially stable and ready na.. then go for it😁Magbasa pa
+1 dito 🙂
Ok lang naman po. 3 months palang kami nagkakilala ng mister ko through fb. 3 weeks ldr. Pumunta sya luzon from cebu city. Same kami ng beliefs, plans and goals kaya ok sakin. May kami nagkakilala then september kinasal. Masaya kami ngayon at may 2 kids na. ❤️ Basta choose your love, and love your choice 😊 TN-wala pa nangyari samin before marriage 😁Magbasa pa
Okay lang... di nasusukat sa tagal yun, nasa pagmamahalan yun ng dalawang tao. Meron nga kung kailan sobrang tagal na magkakilala at nagsasama pero di pa din nagtatagumpay sa pagsasama. Wala sa tagal yun.. nasa kung ano ang tunay ninyong nararamdaman sa isa't isa at kung hanggang saan ninyo kayang ipaglaban ang pagmamahalan ninyo.Magbasa pa