im a young mom at the age of 22years old but i look 16. n every time i bring my baby out with me, i get a lot of stares from people. it really hurts in a way ppl r still so judgemental... there was one lady who asked how old was i n i replied 22 she told me i was so young too young in fact. n another mom overheard n told her 21yo daughter "better study hard if not you end up like her." & fyi i WANTED to be a young mom, i didnt want to have a big generation gap with my kids yknow. i hate how ppl r saying the only reason i got married n have a kid now is bc shotgun or unplanned but in fact it isnt!! my husband n i actually alr planned to rom bc we applied bto tgt n have been tgt since we were 14yos! sigh i feel so judged every time i go out... sometimes i wish i look more "chao lao" (old looking)

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Be happy and proud. You can enjoy your baby while young. It’s the best thing
You are blessed with good genes so celebrate it. Be proud of it. So many women wish they look a lot younger than their years so revel in it. As for comments from others, in one ear and out the other e
Just ignore them! don't let it affect u
Dont worry girl, u are not weird to be a young mom. A young mom is good as u can communicate much more better when ur child enter sec sch!! Im 36 my eldest is 16! I gave birth to him at 20 and im prou