Husband thinks I'm unattractive

I'm in my 30 weeks now, and we haven't have sex for more than a month alr. Our sex life was as normal as once per week or two weeks even when i am in my second trimester. I thought it would be me who have a decrease in sexual desire but it seem like he is the one. I kept questioning why is he behaving weirdly. My insecurities instinct made me asked if it was my ugly breasts and tummy... After a few times of questioning, he answered yes. I have really low self esteem and really felt insecure about the changes in my body, and he made me felt like I am disgusting and ugly. What can I do.... Is it normal for a men to think that their pregnant wife is unattractive?

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I understand what you are going thru, im at my 30weeks too now which i felt the same. I guessed the reason the questioning even takes place, because we ourselves feel and see the differences in our body change. Dont worry, all pregnant women goes thru the same changes. All we can do is to do our part after birth recovery to exercise and healthy balanced diet, to get back to sexy S shape. Work towards a goal and enjoy the journey

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