Husband thinks I'm unattractive

I'm in my 30 weeks now, and we haven't have sex for more than a month alr. Our sex life was as normal as once per week or two weeks even when i am in my second trimester. I thought it would be me who have a decrease in sexual desire but it seem like he is the one. I kept questioning why is he behaving weirdly. My insecurities instinct made me asked if it was my ugly breasts and tummy... After a few times of questioning, he answered yes. I have really low self esteem and really felt insecure about the changes in my body, and he made me felt like I am disgusting and ugly. What can I do.... Is it normal for a men to think that their pregnant wife is unattractive?

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He probably didn't mean what he say...Our body is going through big changes and we should embrace it. We need to love ourselves so others can love us. :)

Super Mum

Dont let what he says affect u. Buck up and be confident again mummy

Super Mum

Probably is afraid of affecting e babe

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He shouldnt be so harsh!

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he shldnt even say that!

Talk to him.