Stress And Depression

Hello, I'm 21 and 3 months pregnant. This is my first baby. I know the first trimester is very critical for the development of my baby but I've been really stressed and depressed since the very beginning of my pregnancy. It's because I feel like a failure for being pregnant this early. My family was really disappointed with me but eventually accepted the baby and supports me since I still don't have a job but I already graduated last April this year. Sometimes, I can't help to be depressed because my pregnancy was very sudden and I feel like I won't be successful because of what happened to me ? I also don't want to feel this way since it will affect my baby. I need some advices mommies. Thank you.

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been there mommy .. I'm 27 now and inaasahan sa family, naging single mom .. gusto ipa abort ng partner ko ang baby namin pero ayaw ko, I decided to keep our baby simula nung nagpa transvaginal ultrasound narinig ko heartbeat nya at 8weeks and 3days. Dumaan ako sa depression maya't maya iyak .. dumating sa point lumayas sa bahay kase di tanggap ng mga kapatid ko nangyari sakin. ako yung nagpoprovide sa bahay pero nung nabuntis ako nagbago lahat kase Wala ako work pero nag susuport naman Ang papa ni baby kahit hiwalay kami .. I know mali ko din talaga pero nasa stage pa rin ako na on process yung adjustment at malalagpasan mo din yan mommy laban lang para kay baby .. I'm happy and blessed taking care of my 5mos and 19days old baby .. my forever love 💕

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