I wan't to have sex and he doesn't. Does a man's drive also change post his wife's delivery?

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physically, there is no connection how his drive can change after pregnancy and childbirth, but of course with the change in routine, it is possible he is tired too. if there is a young baby in the house, it could affect his sleep,and also increase stress. also, some new dads are too careful and conscious about not hurting the mom too soon after childbirth, and are also not comfortable doing it initially with a new baby in the house. do talk to him and see what is bothering him, and help him ease it out :)

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there are a lot of reasons for this. if he is a hands-on dad too then it is likely that he is tired. many men find it difficult to get close to their wives while they still breastfeed, as they are not comfortable with the milky smell. then again, with the changes in appearance, the man may not be able to get in the mood.

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Yes it will affect the dad. If he witness your natural delivery, he may be traumatized by it. Secondly, he could be tired and exhausted even he isn;t the one looking after the baby. Maybe try asking him? I only found out about my husband getting traumatised by my natural delivery only after 1yr later.

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Guess u need to discuss and find out more. Maybe he is tired or affected by something. worse scenario is that he has others to satisfy himself. Therefore speak to him and hear him out

Hi, how long ago you delivered and is he a participative dad? And the timing has to be right as well. Mine claims he has strong desire for sex if he is really tired. I get confused.

Man usually are either too stressed or pent up about something if they have no mood for it. That does not rule out the possibility of just being overly tired.

Find out the reasons from him. maybe he is tired or something is affecting him?

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Well it depends ... Sometimes they might feel tired after a day of work etc..

You guys do a role play. It might help. Strip club set-up!