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Nazneen Batliwalla, India

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My 5 yr old saw me hugging my neighbors wife out of courtesy and has told my wife that daddy keeps hugging aunty. He enjoys pulling my leg but I see this as a wrong habit cultivating. What do I do to stop the same?

stop hugging out of courtsey...be the example ur son expects u to be. I'm surprised u r saying he's pulling your leg...and tht too a 5yrs old...quite an imaginative mind he's got there...

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When I was only 10, I was chosen to be a part of an international dance troupe. However my mother lied to me saying that I lost the chance as she was afraid I would neglect my studies. She told me much later that she had not allowed the troupe to get in touch with me. Dance is my passion and I feel I missed that super opportunity then. Although her reason is genuine, I am still unable to forgive my mum for the same. Am I correct in having this grudge against her cause somewhere inside me there is still a pending turbulence?

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Hi, ur feeling is very natural but one cannot undo what happened in the past so best is to let go and surrender urself to the universe and try n forgive ur mom as her intentions were only good for you. and its never too late for anything, u can always pursue ur passion of dancing even now.

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My child is scared of darkness and every evening wants to be home by sunset. I don't know why and I'm worried. Is she seeing something supernatural. Whats the reason for her fear?

This is normal for kids . Try making her understand that nothing harm in darkness.. increase his confidence abt this

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I always wanted a son, though I love my daughter, I still crave for a son. Is this feeling normal to live with or will it affect my relationship with my daughter?

I always wanted a daughter, got one, then wanted another, got one - i was exceptionally blessed. It's alright to wish for a son or daughter, but if you have the other one, it is more important to give your baby ALLLLL your love, care, attention and more than the best :)

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How do you inculcate the habits of sharing and caring in your child?

Telling stories, talking, sharing your own childhood experiences will help the learn child about sharing and caring. Share a chocolate or anything with your child to show her how good it feels to share. Be compassionate towards the downtrodden, animals, other people which will help your child to learn about caring.

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What are the pros and cons of growing up in a joint family verses nuclear family in India?

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Every thing has their pros and cons. Same goes with joint or nuclear family. Below is my point of view on both... Joint Family - Pros: living together.. having fun.. support of everyone... good enough bonding with everyone Cons: No privacy... too much pampering of kids... more the people more the issues amongst them Nuclear Family - Pros: Privacy.. better nuclear family bonding... nobody interfering in your decisions... comparatively less issues.. even less work for that matter :P Cons: Taking up all responsibilities all alone... lacking support

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Why do Mums seem to be less mood balanced than Dads? Is it experience or habituation?

Parenting is a comparatively challenging for Indian moms because she has work round the clock to look after not only the child but also has to take care of immediate family members which becomes quite stressful after a certain point .It becomes obvious to have a breakdown as this is bound to put her off the balance after reaching her threshold.

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What does a normal day look like in the life of a single and unmarried Indian woman who decided to put career and personal fulfillment above marriage and motherhood? :)

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In other countries, kids address their parents using their first names while not so much in India. I am not in favor of addressing them by their first names? What are your opinions parents?

I'll agree with you here. In fact, I am also not in favour of addressing parents by their first or any other name. While I truly am a friend to my daughters, there is also a side of me where I am strictly a mommy first. I personally feel that as long as we keep a clear understanding of the parent child relationship, it fosters better respect. Of course in today's parenting world, we're all friends to our kids, but we're parents first, so sticking to the age-old ma papa still makes sense to me :)

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What indian foods can I give my baby to increase her height?

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Soyabean, leafy vegetables, fruits rich in vitamin A like mangoes etc , source of vitamin D , dairy products all contribute for the overall growth in the body.Besides this, being active and having balanced diet are equally important.

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