I am sad. I am a sahm. Just had a quarrel with my husband. My LO is 1 month 1 week. I just rise the question asking when he would want to bring him for injection. And he start to piss off and tell me he had been taking alot of leave since I give birth and also during our wedding period which is within this year. And he say to me that I always take and want him to do everything for me. Can't I just do it myself? As a new mom taking care of baby is abit difficult and I hardly have time for myself or sleep. I where got the time to even do my own stuff. He told me that his work is stacking up and he needs to work. Work is as important as the family. Without work how can he feed us. And i feel that I am so useless after he say all the things to me. Feel so regretted to have a baby or even married him.

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Stay strong and positive. Talk to your husband how you feel and how u can take care of your lo tgt. Being a FTM is not easy as there are a lot of things to pick up. Restless nights also contribute to how u and ur husband handle things and emotions. There will also be stress from his work. So do seek help from ur parents or in laws if possible. :)

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