You should be the one to tell your family members in a polite way that it is not very appropriate to say such things. They are your family members, if yku cant speak up, then you want him to speak up? If he speaks up, then another issue will arise. He is human too. So what if he is fat or whatever, more importantly he loves you and the family or your family want you to have someone superficial. We are adults, i think we should be more sensitive. If this continues, your husband will eventually lash out and if that happens i wont blame him.
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