Wrong to quarrel, you and your husband.
Husband and Wife should be United at all times, in times of Bliss and Tough times, that's a part of what Marriage is about (Recall your Marriage Vows)
Your family members = You need to take charge and defend your husband.
If it is your husband's family members = Your husband need to take charge and defend you.
If you can't change your family members, plan to shift out immediately Or soonest possible and further away from your family member house, this is to put an end to this nonsense for your husband. Full stop.
Your husband has been very nice to exercise restraint and not talk back to your family members in sacarstic manner and he is doing this because he respects you and your family members but your family members are TOO much. Please be mindful that a man's ego and pride cannot be hurt too many times, otherwise one day his temper will explode big time (There is a limit to one's patience, with frustration and repeated sacarsm attacking him building up daily, weekly, monthly, etc....)
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