First if all, wherever you are, whatever you do, whoever you're with, you first haveta PROTECT your marriage. By that you haveta listen, and act accordingly to support and defend your spouse. Bcz he is your other half.
If the problem is from your side, (your family), then you haveta stop it bcz you have the bigger say. If the problem is frm his side, then he will hvta stop it bcz his family will of course listen to him more.
My only advice if nothing else works then it's best to move out. Buy BTO and then get hse rental frm HDB under PPHS. Rental that way is cheaper.
All the best and remember to stay strong for each other. Others don't matter as much as your spouse.
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