My husband and I can't seem to communicate anymore! We have four girls, 2 in their teens and 2 younger ones. We can't seem to have a conversation anymore - my oldest girl has to constantly be the person in-between passing messages between us. I don't know what to do anymore, we have spoken to the kids and they would rather we split up then to carry on living a sad life everyday! What should I do?

I would say try marriage counselling if you have yet to try. It only works when both of u see that as an issue and agree to attend. Otherwise u will feel frustrated when only u have made the initiative to do so. Most of the Family Service Centres (FSC) have this service and there is a FSC serving your boundary. See https://app.msf.gov.sg/dfcs/familyservice/default.aspx I sincerely hope for the best for your family.

Try to go for counseling. Sometimes with the help of an external party, things may b able to work out. Most importantly is dat both r u r positive and 1 2 make changes.