I would say try marriage counselling if you have yet to try. It only works when both of u see that as an issue and agree to attend. Otherwise u will feel frustrated when only u have made the initiative to do so.
Most of the Family Service Centres (FSC) have this service and there is a FSC serving your boundary. See https://app.msf.gov.sg/dfcs/familyservice/default.aspx
I sincerely hope for the best for your family.
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