How Would You Feel?

How would you feel? Hi mommies how would you feel if you were in my situation? Im currently 8 months pregnant with our first child. Since January, we havent had a "sexy time" with my husband since i experienced threatened abortion and was placed on bed rest. By my 2nd trimester, the ob allowed me to move and discontinued my medications. It was just in time for my husband's bday and our anniversary. These plus the horny hormones of 2nd trimester combined, we planned to do it several times but failed kasi sobrang sakit. So we decided to do it after manganak nalang, like MONTHS after pa. There are times na i would offer to blow him pero he would refuse cause he's tired, or "baka malasahan ni baby" which is silly. Pero i would just brush it off. I'm not a fan of giving them before pregnancy din naman. Last weekend, father's day, as a sexually frustrated wife, i offered to blow him which he declined. Yesterday, i caught him watching porn. This is the first time i caught him and i felt hurt. I cried all night because i felt cheated on, plus i felt really ugly. I gained weight due to pregnancy, my boobs changed, my belly has stretchmarks. I told him about my insecurities, he still says na i'm still pretty and he loves me no matter what but i still felt betrayed. Now, i cant look at him anymore. I dont want him to touch me or see my body.

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I perfectly understand what you're going through as well as your desire to satisfy your husband's sexual need. That is very commendable and I appreciate you for that. You knew that that is their BASIC NEED. Having said that, i understand your frustrations on him ignoring you but resort to porn instead. I would suggest you will change your strategy. Don't make it so obvious like offering bj in an instant or other things like that. Why do it gradually? Start it by appreciating all his good points (like how awesome husband he is to you, cause him to remember your old times together when you were will lovers and how blessed you are for having him). Men are aroused and feel good about themselves when they feel that we (wives) are their number one fan. After that start touching him focusing more on his erogenous zone, believe me he will never say no for a bj.. Pornography has a lasting effect in a long run. It is addictive ànd the crave for it will never satisfy..That is not God's design in the first place. Praying for you mommy. May your sexual relationship be always kept ablaze

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Kung sinabi nya na baka mahurt si baby accept mo nlngvung sinabi nyabkasi my care sya sa baby nio.. ako maselan din di pa ako sinabihan ng ob ko na wag mg Do.. ung partner ko tinatanggihan ako 🤣🤣🤣 ginagawa ko kinikiss ko nlng sya hehehe at thankful ako dun kasi mas inaalala nya baby namin.. kahit nakakainis na tanggihan ka hahahaha.. wag mo kasi sabihin na oi bj nalang kita hayaan mo na mangyare o bigalang mangyare un without se* dba.. saka panood ng x video for me ok lang lage ko sinasabi sa partner ko na yan lang panoorin nya wag lang sa iba mgchukchakan 😂 and sabihan mo rin sya ng thank u dahil kaya nya mag control sa sarili nya..

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Maybe kasi iniisip lang niya ang baby nyo. And please,keep communication open with your husband.para madali kayo magkaintindihan.tell.him whats bothering you para ma assure at secure ka niya and therefore hindi na lumaki pa ang tampuhan which in turn pag tumatagal,nagiging issue. Tell him how u feel.tell him nakita mo siya.so he can explain himself and make u understand his side.i know how frustrating it is that u want to please your husband.but try to hear him out first too para magkaintindihan kayo. Lahat ng bagay,nadadaan sa mahinahon na paguusap 🙂

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Ay ganyan po asawa qo, tapos sinasabe nya na "tara mal" with matching smile pa ng kay bongga, tapos sabi qo " tara sa cr" kasi wala kaming privacy dito sa. Mommy nya iisang kwarto lang kasi ang tinutuluyan namin now☺😌pero wala kasi ayaw daw nya kiyod nalang sya ng kiyod nakkayawa. Ewan qo kong nanonood sya kasi totok sya sa work. Pero siguro pag naliligo "masturbating"hehehe pero ok nadin un nakakaawa nga ehh.. Maselan din kasi ako kaya natatakot sya

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My husband is the same. He always says he just uses his energy for exercise and he wants our baby to be super healthy he is scared having sex will affect our little one. But he is super sweet and keeps his hands on my tummy and brings me all sorts of pasalubong. I feel sad about my body and my swollen feet and my swollen nose but he still makes me laugh like before and hugs me like before so really I don't want to complain.

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Si lip gnyan din since ngbuntis ako ayaw nya m kc iniingatan nya c baby after birth n lng dw kht ilng beses ko sya pilitin 8mos preggy nko ngaun still nangungulit pero ayw nya tlga kc mkktulong din yun bgo mngank sbi nila nkikitaan ko din sya ng porn sa cp hinayaan ko n lng pero after birth d n pwede sakin un think positive lng sis wag pka stress 💓☺

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Ikaw lang iniisip ni hubby sis. Kasi pag pinag pilitan baka mapahamak si baby. Any time naman after manganak pwede nyo na gawin pero ngayon si baby muna. Yung nood, normal lang sa lalaki yan. Hindi lang sila nahuhuli minsan basta wala 3rd party.

for me sis ok lng nood muna sya ng porn kaysa ibang babae gamitin nya......nag alala lng yan kai baby at ang pagbubuntis mo maselan... Don't worry too much love ka nmn nya baka maapektuhan pa si baby sa pag iiyak mo....

Tips ko sayo sis? Blow mo habang tulog, para walang angal.

Relax ka lang Mamsh . Nag iingat lang yan si Mister 😉

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