How Would You Feel?

How would you feel? Hi mommies how would you feel if you were in my situation? Im currently 8 months pregnant with our first child. Since January, we havent had a "sexy time" with my husband since i experienced threatened abortion and was placed on bed rest. By my 2nd trimester, the ob allowed me to move and discontinued my medications. It was just in time for my husband's bday and our anniversary. These plus the horny hormones of 2nd trimester combined, we planned to do it several times but failed kasi sobrang sakit. So we decided to do it after manganak nalang, like MONTHS after pa. There are times na i would offer to blow him pero he would refuse cause he's tired, or "baka malasahan ni baby" which is silly. Pero i would just brush it off. I'm not a fan of giving them before pregnancy din naman. Last weekend, father's day, as a sexually frustrated wife, i offered to blow him which he declined. Yesterday, i caught him watching porn. This is the first time i caught him and i felt hurt. I cried all night because i felt cheated on, plus i felt really ugly. I gained weight due to pregnancy, my boobs changed, my belly has stretchmarks. I told him about my insecurities, he still says na i'm still pretty and he loves me no matter what but i still felt betrayed. Now, i cant look at him anymore. I dont want him to touch me or see my body.

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I perfectly understand what you're going through as well as your desire to satisfy your husband's sexual need. That is very commendable and I appreciate you for that. You knew that that is their BASIC NEED. Having said that, i understand your frustrations on him ignoring you but resort to porn instead. I would suggest you will change your strategy. Don't make it so obvious like offering bj in an instant or other things like that. Why do it gradually? Start it by appreciating all his good points (like how awesome husband he is to you, cause him to remember your old times together when you were will lovers and how blessed you are for having him). Men are aroused and feel good about themselves when they feel that we (wives) are their number one fan. After that start touching him focusing more on his erogenous zone, believe me he will never say no for a bj.. Pornography has a lasting effect in a long run. It is addictive ànd the crave for it will never satisfy..That is not God's design in the first place. Praying for you mommy. May your sexual relationship be always kept ablaze

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