Time for number 2?

How do you decide you are ready for no. 2? When did you start trying again? How did you feel after having no. 2? Looking back now, any regrets of not sticking to just one?

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I decided to hv no 2 after my lo turn 4 yo, I only afraid the gap is too far, and I envy those who carrying baby lately, bcos my girl is not a baby anymore 😁, and also bcos I hv some complications during my 1st one, so it takes time for me to get over it.

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We’re not ready for no 2. I think you’ll definitely know when you want no 2. If you don’t have that feeling, there’s no point rushing also. If you’re not ready, it can be very stressful managing 2 kids at once.

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We are planning for number 2. We wanted to wait for a minimum of 2 year age gap and when both our work schedules afforded me to have some down time for pregnancy and delivery :)

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I am thinking to have my no 2 after my boy turns 3.5 months .. or else can’t manage 2younger kids at a time ..

our plan is when she's around 3...cos it's probably chaotic to handle 2 young kids at the same time..

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Hmm, I think it is when your no 1 feel lonely.

2y ago

Haha can get a pet also if lonely right? 😂