Hi my parents in law have been of great help in helping me to take care of my kids as I am a working mum. But my mother in law likes to make noise about how I run the household and also scold my helper when she doesn't do things her way. I don't want my helper to get pissed off at her and am also afraid that she will not want to work for us. Any tips? Should I get my helper to listen to her and do things her way or do things my way?

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TapFluencer

Try to put some boundaries with your mil that your helper reports to you and not her. This is not easy to achieve so maybe talk to your husband to help manage your mil expectation. Also, she needs to stop meddling into your household for peace between you and your hubby.