Overbearing mother in law
My MIL is extremely overbearing and annoying. She forces her way into my room when I’m breastfeeding even when my husband repeatedly told her twice we don’t want her in the room cause she say she don’t see what’s wrong. She likes to give me a lecture on how to take care of my own baby (how I should hold the bottle, what confinement nanny I hire, how I should dress him) and keeps buying me shit I don’t need cause she thinks those things she buy (like clothes) are “better” for baby. She literally even gave me a lecture 1hr after I gave birth cause I was drinking plain water instead of red date tea in the hospital. And she also constantly turn up at my house uninvited. I hate her so much and every single thing she do irks me now. My husband knows that i am at my limit but he is obviously sandwiched between and I don’t want to make things ugly too. But she doesn’t get the hint and keeps pushing my buttons. How do you deal with someone like her?!!!?