Every family is bound to have this problem. My husband is very easy going and my mom respect people a lot but even so they also have problems on how baby is handled. Most of the times I feel is my husband is stubborn and wrong . My mom is experienced mom having take care of us and my two nieces. She will only make comment once a while and she will say nicely. My husband pretends not to hear. And this pissed my mom a lot.
Have to endure. If your mom is the main caretaker as long as you also don't feel her way is wrong I think just let it pass. Have to close both eyes. Unless really something that you feel shouldn't be done like this then you raise it up to your mom.
The best way is to move out soon. We have to respect old people especially our parents so I feel if somethings can pass just pass. Explain to your husband . As parents we need to let go of certain things once we have kids. My mother in law also does things against my wishes despite me telling her not to. But I don't voice out too much unless really not good for my gal. Tell your mom too that perhaps her tone can be better? But at the risk of pissing your mom off. Old people don't like to be told off
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