Regarding giving to your husband family (your in laws)

husband ko kc sinasabi sa akin..nagtatanong muna kng ok lng..sa akin nmn walang problema kht hnd na siya mgpaalam kc family nmn nya un..wag lang sobra na kmi nmn mawawalan..kpg nagbigay cya na hnd nakpg paalam sa akin..sinasabi dn nmn nya pg nagkausap na kmi..dapat po open kau sa isat isa para walang problema..ska wag mo cya pgbawalan basta sabhn mo dapat wag sobra kc baka nmn kau ang mawalan..

Kami, Fixed amount lang ang binibigay namin. Nothing more, nothing less. Both sides un at walang mintis monthly. It works for us. Lalo at me pamilya na din kami binubuhay di pwedeng basta bigay na lang ng bigay. Hndi pwede pag ma sobra palagi mong ibibigay, kelangan magsave din for emergency.

Open kmi mag-asawa if we give money to our parents. Kung magkano or whatnot. Aq dn kc humahawak ng pera nmin so alam ko kung nagbibigay siya sa magulang niya which is okey lang nman sa akin. Even me nagsasabi aq kapag magbibigay aq sa magulang ko. Communication lang po 😊😊😊.

communication must be established to have a harmonious relationship. but in my case I dont mind if he gives away and tells me later. it's for his family after all. besides giving never makes you poor thats for sure. 😉

Yes, we always talk about our expenses including those that we give to our parents. It's easier to track and budget our income. We make it a point that we save enough money for emergency and for our future.

At first he will tell me that they need money then he"ll ask me if its ok for me to give them some..and i'll say yes,,but it depends on why they need it or where are they gonna spend it for..

We consult to each other whenever we have to give or loan money to someone. Lahat ng desisyon pinaguusapan namin. If di kokonsulta, for me nakakaoffend un.

Talk to your husband first (respectfully) about the issue and let him know if it bothers you. Let him know you’re uncomfortable of secrets. 😉

dpat alam nyo din po para walang samaan ng loob.karapatan nyo nman po yun dahil mag asawa po kayo

As a married couple this issue must be tackled by you both to resolve the issue.