Regarding giving to your husband family (your in laws)

Does your husband tells you or consulting you about giving money or how much to give?? Pano if he doesnt tell you or consult you what will be your reaction?? Need advice

Selina Parx

Domestic diva of 2 playful magician

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husband ko kc sinasabi sa akin..nagtatanong muna kng ok lng..sa akin nmn walang problema kht hnd na siya mgpaalam kc family nmn nya un..wag lang sobra na kmi nmn mawawalan..kpg nagbigay cya na hnd nakpg paalam sa akin..sinasabi dn nmn nya pg nagkausap na kmi..dapat po open kau sa isat isa para walang problema..ska wag mo cya pgbawalan basta sabhn mo dapat wag sobra kc baka nmn kau ang mawalan..

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Kami, Fixed amount lang ang binibigay namin. Nothing more, nothing less. Both sides un at walang mintis monthly. It works for us. Lalo at me pamilya na din kami binubuhay di pwedeng basta bigay na lang ng bigay. Hndi pwede pag ma sobra palagi mong ibibigay, kelangan magsave din for emergency.

Anonymous

2y ago

Hi can I ask kung magkano binibigay nyo sa parents nyo? Para lang magkaidea ako, Kase dito kame nakatira sa magulang ng asawa ko pero nakabukod kame ng pwesto lang, Naisip ko kase na dapat ba mas lamang ang ibigay sa kanila kumpara sa parents ko, kase dito kame nakatira and asawa ko lang ang nagtatrabaho? o fair lang dapat. Ask ko lang din sana if nasa magkano ang salary nyo per month kung pwede lang naman, nagbabalak palang kase ako magbigay sa parents ng asawa ko pero diko naman alam kung magkano

Open kmi mag-asawa if we give money to our parents. Kung magkano or whatnot. Aq dn kc humahawak ng pera nmin so alam ko kung nagbibigay siya sa magulang niya which is okey lang nman sa akin. Even me nagsasabi aq kapag magbibigay aq sa magulang ko. Communication lang po 😊😊😊.

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communication must be established to have a harmonious relationship. but in my case I dont mind if he gives away and tells me later. it's for his family after all. besides giving never makes you poor thats for sure. 😉

Yes, we always talk about our expenses including those that we give to our parents. It's easier to track and budget our income. We make it a point that we save enough money for emergency and for our future.

At first he will tell me that they need money then he"ll ask me if its ok for me to give them some..and i'll say yes,,but it depends on why they need it or where are they gonna spend it for..

We consult to each other whenever we have to give or loan money to someone. Lahat ng desisyon pinaguusapan namin. If di kokonsulta, for me nakakaoffend un.

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