Dear mommiies & daddies, a question about 《SEX》In marriage. How important does 《SEX》play a part in a marriage? Can both stay together without《SEX》? I've been undergoing 《SEXLESS》marriage almost 6mths. Even i initial the first step my husband will give lots of excuses or reasons to back up the 《SEXLESS》with me. Even i try to talk to him, he'll tell me no or nothing else. I'm really getting tired & fed up in such relationship. Simply don't feel as a couple. Last week, we ever try to move on who know everything back to NONE!!! I feel hurt feel neglect. And that day i meet my a guy friend of mine. He try to start handky panky with me. Instead of stopping him i NEVER. I know i should'nt do that but i really feel good. And the other way HATE whenever i see or think of my husband at home. Always say tired don't even involve handle ours child or the family yet always say tired. Btw, he working 5days job with office hours. This is simply not acceptable for a 《SEXLESS》relationship. I told my friend about it, they say to me he might have a affair so "tired" to perform. Really tired of trying or keep giving him chances to hurt or neglect me.

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After reading all the comments, before you end up like the 2nd anonymous, best to talk to him, and ask him again why. ( i mean you don't want to waste 2-3 years and end up divorce right) Maybe hint him (know it's not good to say divorce but) tell him, you can't continue like this if continue like this, than let's divorce. If he hold u back, he will communicate with you, if he don't than something really must be fishy already. It's not good for you to be the reason to get divorce because you got hanky panky with other guy right. For me, if i really want hanky panky with other guys, i will wait till I divorce with him instead, at least i won't let people say i'm the one in wrong and give ppl a chance to shame me unnecessary . (I mean since ur husband already cfm chop [kind of cfm chop] don't want do with u once already right. Than if he continue having sexless life with u, even though he had no affair, will u still want to be with him?)

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