Currently my lo is very closed to my helper. How to bring the bond back?

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Simply spend more time with your kid. I know it hurts when your own kid reaches for another adult than their mother. I've experienced this with my own daughters. Start with fun activities so your child will associate time with you as time for fun. Then gradually do the things that he usually does with the helper, like bathing, feeding, etc. You'll be surprised that it'll only take a short time before your little one will feel close to you again.

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Spend quality time with your LO, not just being beside LO but giving your full attention and focus - phone and work placed far away! I'd say it's a happy problem because it also shows that your helper is treating LO really well :)

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Spend more time with your kid. It's normal as she is the current main caregiver for your LO. Don't worry about it. after all LO will know who is their real parents

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put your kid to bed every night, bring your kid out on the weekends. let your helper go on her weekend off too. always remember, quality over quantity.

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if you really want to bond with your LO your handphone should Be away. 😊 try to have more quality time, do some bonding activities.

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Spend more play and feeding time to bond with your child. And don’t let your child sleep with the helper.

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My baby is also closer to my helper. #workingmumwoes

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spend more time with your kid.