Daughter sticky to the helper

My little girl is 11-12 months now, she is very sticky to the helper.. sometimes I feel she loves helper more than me, even wondering if she knows I am her mom? I am quite sad tho:( She only let the helper hold when she is insecure, sleepy, anxiety.. What to do:(... Will it be worse or better when she grow older?

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From my own experience, as they grow older they will learn who are their real parents. As helper is their main caregiver now, they will tend to be sticky to them. But you also need to make the effort to spend time with them whenever possible

They usually stick to the main caregiver

Give her more accompanio and time...

Are you spending time with her?

Super Mum

This is a happy problem I would say.. Shows that your helper is treating your daughter really well so your daughter loves her so much. What you need to do is to bond with her more often when you are at home.

This is a comment issue for many parents with helper. Try spending more alone time with your little girl and shower her with loves.

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