Kids are very smart and they will always know who their mummy is. My daughter is very attached to our helper as well, but I know she would always choose me over her. Kissing is fine imo, I'd prefer a helper who bonds well with my child than one who she rejects.
it's okay for you to feel you don't want anyone else but you and your husband to kiss your 15m daughter! I would feel the same way too! Anyway, for hygiene sake, I will only allow us parents to kiss my own child.
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