my husband is fucking idiot

After the issue with my mother in law seksa me...my parents brought me here to their house..my stupid husband listened to his mother and sister...and didn't here both parties...he is seksa me also now...I am also an idiot for being to obsessed with him...I loved him like anything... seriusly...I gave up all the rich gud looking ones for my middle class husband...which their family all looks only important..stupid family ...my family is much more richer than his 100%...as a daddies manja daughter I grew up ..after I came to my my in laws house...my god ...I had a tough time...first time doing work..I didn't tell I won't do...just that I took time..as time went by...I did 100% by myself... starting form breakfast lunch dinner.. cleaning the raw chicken fish beef shrimp squid cutting up vegetables and fruits... cooking rice curry do chicken fries.. cleaning the toilet...first time I my life washing the cloths by hand when they use the washing machine...but I cannot...if I put to the dirty cloths basket... my cloths will sit there for few weeks till I wask them by myself... cannot hang my dress together with them...I never mopped or ironed...I did all of that things..get myswlf burned... everything man...I was treated like their slaves...and for the Info...my house has two maids...and in laws house is as big as my house car porch for one car...where we have plenty of cars...it's such a small house...they showed off alot...and my parents has so much properties...houses lands condons shoplots... they married me so they wanted expensive things...but for myself I got cheap yucky things...my in laws family is a fake family..lives for others to see them...my god...I couldn't take it...btw...we have a cute little daughter where my husband and my in-laws don't give a shit about it...not only that...it's the first grandchild for both of the families...how can they be so cruel...

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Tulis jawapan

Oh dear, that’s unhealthy. Sounds like ur husband is very good at manipulating a situation. Look, just because u are 12 years younger doesn’t mean he’s got all the right to mentally/ physically abuse u. Also, just cause he’s 12 years older doesn’t mean he’s super smart n knows how to handle everything. No one should treat another human being the way ur husband had treated u! Especially hitting u while u are pregnant v his daughter. What a dick move. I may not know u my dear, but please please make the best decision for the sake of u, ur daughter and both ur future. When one is deeply in love, love could easily blind us from all the bad that is temporarily unseen. Now that U’ve seen and felt what’s real behind all closed curtains. I hope moving forward u’ll be able to make wise and positive decisions. U don’t need such man to continue leading u astray and only move towards “no where”.. But your daughter needs u to lead her away from what could possibly harm her in the near future. Ur one true love now is actually ur daughter. She is one that will always have ur back/ look up to u. But as for now, she needs u to have hers and to protect her. Once again please remember that NO ONE has the right to mentally/ physically abuse another person the way ur hubs n his family had abuse u during ur pregnancy journey. That’s just super wrong.. I hope u are no longer staying v ur abusive husband and in laws. I wish u n ur daughter nothing but the best in the future. U can start focusing only on ur self and ur daughter now. Good luck and stay strong alright ! Also, they have not completely ruined ur whole life, u have a whole lot of life ahead of u still ❤️ Everyday is an opportunity to create a new start, the choice is all in ur hand 🌸

Baca lagi
4y ago

Thanks there sis for the advice...btw..I am no longer staying with my husband or in laws...just that they want me to come back coz they r worried their family name would be tarnished...do I care about it.. absolutely nope...if they were so worried...they should have treated me gud...hope they learn their lesson...my daughter is their first grandchild after so long...they don't even care an iota for her...all they care is their children..so as for me my child is my priority...my father in law's brother has great grandchild already...he now only first grandchild but they were never happy I believe it's coz of its a daughter and not a son... serious they r one fucking family...