How to cope without confinement nanny

I didn't have a CL or help for #1. Only hubby was there to help for first 2 weeks. I ordered confinement tingkat for lunch and dinner for the whole month. Bought a box of confinement bath herbs and prepared the bath myself (did not bathe with herbs everyday though). Hubby will take over baby till the next morning after he came back from work at 8pm. At night I only wake up to pump, night feeds all done by hubby. Very tiring for both of us but I was happy because I get to decide how to take care of baby and #1 is super close to me.