You’re only 21, are you sure you wanna live with this man and tolerate this kinda mil for the next 60 years?
Anyway just wanna tell you that if your kids are young, the care and control of them will definitely go to you, just that you will have shared custody. Both of you will be the parents just that your children will stay with you. He will probably get to meet your kids once a week and you can’t stop that, but they can’t take the kids away from you. Please educate your mil since she’s from China so she might not know the Singapore law and laugh at her for thinking she can use the kids to threaten you and try to snatch away from you.
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